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[tanaise]

Andrea's roommate is visiting, unfortunately at the same time that Chris becomes superbitch--Orals are Thursday, and she's stressing about it. Hmmm. Interesting choice of music for me to write that sentence too. Anyways, she's freaking, so Cara and I will be going for crepes, and taking our time, so as to minimize the time in the appartment.

And I want the boy to ask me for lunch today. Andrea says I should ask him myself but I don't want him to think I'm pushy. Well, not yet anyways. And I know he's busy at work, so I don't want to pester him. Andrea says to heck with pushy, I should let him think I want to shove him down and ravage him.

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[tikimama.livejournal.com]

What's wrong with being pushy? It's called being assertive, and it means you get what you want. Usually. At least, more often than waiting for what you want to be given to you, which so never happens.

[stronae.livejournal.com]

Bloody hell. Guys are *so* tired of being expected to make the first move. (Or maybe I'm just extending the Energy thread.) Anyway, they (just like you) like it when they get asked to do just about anything vaguely enjoyable. They (just like you) also like a confident woman (or, a man, in your case). Besides, the Universe rarely gives something to you for free. You want something? Take it. Or cast a spell. Or something. :)

[tanaise.livejournal.com]

Says you! He's the one who didn't call this weekend, though he said he would (aahh, I sound whiny, don't I? I'm not trying to. He doesn't have to call me if he doesn't want to, it's just that he said he would). And it's not so much pushy as naggy, maybe? I usually start conversations and all, though he sure is better at answering emails since I stopped for two weeks when he didn't write back. But he's said work is hellish, and I don't want to be pestering him when he doesn't have time to be pestered. Though he has about 4 days before I do try pestering him. I would like to meet him before I go off to Clarion, I think.

[stronae.livejournal.com]

That's what I get for entering a thread half-spun, I suppose. :) If you've already placed the ball in his court, then he really is hyperbusy, or he may be trying to tell you something. Or he just hasn't learned to be interpersonally responsible.

You're right to wait, then. But everyone needs to eat lunch, yes? :)

[tanaise.livejournal.com]

Well, we have discussed this extensively. :) Not we-me/him of course, just we-me/everyone else in the world.