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Aug. 14th, 2006 11:54 amI was looking up an address to send a card to one of my friends last night (The winning postcard was a "Garden State Parkway" card from the 50s? 60s? with big boats of cars.), and checked my yahoo account for it for the first time in the weekend? or so. And lo and behold, there was an email from one of my friends who I never hear much about and worry about (because one of the last things I heard about him was that he was joining the army so they'd teach him Arabic). But he's doing good and living in GA right now.
I just realised how old he must be now--3 years older than me, so 32. Since I've known him (my freshman year of college) he's been a pre-med student who worked in a brass fittings factory to pay for college, a med tech while waiting to go to med school, a seminary student, and now in the miltary. It's sort of odd. I don't think I know anyone who's joined the miltary after I liked them, and it's so totally alien to anything I believe. He was one of my favorite boys in college, and was interested in me (though it took me god knows how long to figure it out, but I never felt that we'd work as a relationship, and since he graduated, it's been more clear that I was right. Oddly enough, even with that, i think I *should* have dated him in college--I was still overly worried about hurting others at the time, though, so I didn't.
I just realised how old he must be now--3 years older than me, so 32. Since I've known him (my freshman year of college) he's been a pre-med student who worked in a brass fittings factory to pay for college, a med tech while waiting to go to med school, a seminary student, and now in the miltary. It's sort of odd. I don't think I know anyone who's joined the miltary after I liked them, and it's so totally alien to anything I believe. He was one of my favorite boys in college, and was interested in me (though it took me god knows how long to figure it out, but I never felt that we'd work as a relationship, and since he graduated, it's been more clear that I was right. Oddly enough, even with that, i think I *should* have dated him in college--I was still overly worried about hurting others at the time, though, so I didn't.